To my little girl

I found a special letter that I thought I had lost. I was not yet pregnant with Adalyn, but I found out that I was in November, soon after this letter was written. My little girl is growing up so quickly and she graduates from preschool this week. I wanted to type out the letter I had written to "Baby Starnes" so she can always go back and look at it whenever she wants. I love you Adalyn!


10-26-2005
Baby Starnes,

You are not even here yet but I feel like you are coming to this world soon! Maybe its because of talking about it last October-November when David asked me if I was pregnant—he thought his dream meant that I would be pregnant or have a baby on Dad’s birthday in November—so I’ve been wondering if we’ll find that to be true next month. It may be now and it may be a year from now but your daddy and I are ready for you! You’re going to love it here with us—we have such a cool house (literally, its 54 degrees without heat right now :)) and live in a Really cool town. When you are big enough we will take you camping, but even when you are teeny tiny we will take you up in the mountains so you can start hiking early! You’ll like Max Patch in the Spring—there are flowers and butterflies and even if you are a little boy, those things are really beautiful to see! Your highchair will be beside the big bay window in the dining room and you will love to look out the window and watch the squirrels in the yard. We even have an “Asheville Pine!”..and your daddy cut the bottom limbs last week so you will be able to play underneath the limbs and be inside of the tree—it is very neat. I went under there when he was finished. It will make a cool fort or pretend house. Your room has the best sunlight—we are jealous! The walls in your room will be yellow so that you will always feel cozy and happy—and we’ll be right across the hall when you need us. There is a really pretty lake by the house and you will get to go on lots of trips around the lake trail. I’m hoping we can feed the ducks over there too. Our church is great—you will have some older friends to play with but you will probably be more advanced than them anyway!
You will get to be with your daddy and I at Wasabi, the Pizza Company and Barley’s and when you are old enough to eat big people food I’ll give you some Edamame and help you eat yummy sushi rolls! Lucky for you—the Pizza place has kid movies some afternoons. Your dad is really sweet and will be a great dad to have—he can even speak Donald Duck. Just a warning—he will want you to go hunting with him. I won’t like it but it is one of his favorite things to do so maybe you will be excited about it. You have some grandparents that live in Arkansas and some in Florida. So you will get to go to the beach and Disney World in Florida and to the Ozark Mountains in Arkansas. I could tell you All about Arkansas where I came from, but you will be living in North Carolina so I will tell you about the fun things here. We get snow in the Winter! You will think that cold white stuff is pretty cool—we’ll make snow cream too! Right now the leaves have gone from green to orange, yellow, and Red—it happens every fall! I’m sure you will ask lots of questions about why things happen and I’m sure your dad will have really good Answers! I hope you like the YMCA nursery because I’ll have to get some exercise while you play. There is a stroller club 2x a week though so we can meet other babies and parents while we walk! Oh! I almost forgot to tell you about the Biltmore Estate land—trust me, you will think its magical. There are BIG deer for your daddy and pretty trees, hills and flowers for me. One day we sat on a hill full of daisies and made flower halos and took pictures. I’ll show you how to make one—if you are a little boy and don’t want to wear one then I will wear it! I can’t wait til you get here! I have as many questions about you as you will have about me—are you going to be a boy or girl? What will you like to play with and will you like to eat different foods or be picky? Right now you will be named Adalyn if you are a girl and maybe Garrett or Tyler if you are a boy. I like Austin and McCage too. I wish you could help choose! Your Nana has already made you a blanket—I think. I can’t wait to pick out your crib bedding and your clothes! I hope you like the outdoors. We can go to the Botanical Gardens and go shopping downtown. There are some interesting characters down there! You can help me plant flowers and maybe we’ll even try to plant a tree in the spot where we had to cut one down. When I was little I liked to draw with sidewalk chalk so you’ll have to give that a try someday. Since you’ll probably take your first baths in the kitchen sink I will make sure to keep flowers there—we have what is called a garden window. You can see a giant White Oak tree from your “Bath Sink”. I’ll get you some good music to listen to. We have wind chimes here too. AND a fireplace which we will try out for the first time tonight. Your daddy and I are going to carve a pumpkin this weekend so the Trick or Treaters will come see us. I’m sure you will like Halloween. Clouds are cool. So are rainbows—there was one behind Ingles yesterday. Maybe you will be here by next Christmas! If so you can see all of our decorations and be here when we put up the tree. Don’t be allergic to Real trees, ok? If you are, that’s o.k. We love you anyway!! Well its time for me to go. I hope you like it here! Can’t wait to meet you!

Love,
Your Mom Kristina


Adalyn,
Well it turns out that God had given us a precious baby girl and we did name you Adalyn! You are almost 5 now and such a beautiful little girl! Everything in the letter came true and you had so many incredible experiences in Asheville.

A sweet baby girl was born

 

Here we are in the bay window I told you about

You sat here many times and watched the snow fall from this window

You stood on top of the world at Max Patch!

...and among the tulips at the Biltmore Estate

You played under the "Asheville Pine"

...and saw it decorated with Snow..

..Sunsets

and Rainbows!

Here is your sunny yellow room!

Here is a picture of the big White Oak from the garden window...

...And you did take many baths from that sink!

 

You made MANY messes...

And CLEANED many messes!

We watched a lot of sunsets from our front porch

You love to wear flowers in your hair, just like mommy

Those 'downtown characters' that I told you about--you fit in quite well with them at the drum circle!

You had your first camping trip and loved it!

You saw the beautiful colors change from green to red and yellow and orange season after season

You turned out to be quite the little hiker and love the outdoors!

 

You planted and watered flowers and helped me start a garden 

You even helped daddy plant that tree!

I knew you would love sidewalk chalk :)

You had your very own sushi

We took many walks around Beaver Lake

You definitely discovered that 'cold white stuff'!

You have a style of your very own!

And it turns out that Halloween is right up your alley!

You had many fun Halloweens with friends!

I told you clouds are cool!

You love to read

You are an Artist

And a Dancer

...and an Athlete

You are so good to your friends...

And you were Such a good friend to Payton

Now you are a great big sister!

You get fireworks EVERY year on your birthday...sometimes Smiley Face ones!

Ice Cream is your Friend :)

You know how to "Live it Up"

And you like a Dramatic ending in all of your play

You are growing up now, and learning to be "Cool"

   

The first day of preschool didn't seem so long ago

But the last year sure has flown by!

Our little baby girl is growing up

You can now hold Maya just like I held you here!

And although you have grown up...

..."In a Whirl!"

You will Always, ALWAYS be Our little girl!

You have gone from being the baby to helping with the baby and we couldn't be more proud of you!  You graduated from preschool this week and you start kindergarten in the fall--look how fast you have grown up!  God has given us the most amazing blessing by bringing you into our lives.  remember that we will always love you and can't wait to keep watching you learn and grow as the years go by!

Love, Mommy